I am seeing signs each day that we as a culture are leaving the patriarchal based society behind. I believe that we are entering a time when the abilities of women are going to shine. My mom was in the beginning of this movement, she placed rivets in the wings and fuselage of airplanes during WW II while the men did what they do best, fight and kill. Two major changes were brought on by this revolutionary change, men were now replaceable by women in much of the workplace, and women for the first time realized that they could do other things in addition to caring for children and making meals.
As a young man I often observed the roles of the sexes and wondered why they were as they were. My mom who was somewhat liberated by the war maintained the house and most of my life held down a job which allowed our family to be a part of the growing American middle class. My dad held down a good job working for the United Airlines. Although they were not the happiest couple, they managed to stay together until they passed despite my mom threatening to leave many times. This leads us to my next point.
I have often said that men have screwed the world up in so many ways that it is time for a different order. It is time for the women of our society to become major decision makers in the world. If you have not noticed, this is already happening at a very fast pace. 75% of the prime time news anchors on one major network are women. The US Senate has gone from 2% women in 1990 to 25% women today. The US Congress has almost identical numbers. Women CEO’s for fortune 500 companies has risen from 2 in 2000 to 37 today. General Motors, the epicenter of testosterone has a woman CEO! Women are becoming major players in every aspect of society.
Guys, I realize we have been the hunters, bread winners, athletes and protectors for quite a long time and in some of these areas we did a good job, but in some of these areas we fall way short. Couple this with the idea that society has moved away from many of our strengths. No longer is it cool to beat someone up or face them down with some enormous biceps. Many women have learned to protect themselves thus not relying on a male protector. Many women now carry a gun which levels most any field.
In our long journey to today’s society, I am sure women have, at times, been more involved with maintaining order in certain cultures. But generally they allowed the men to play the big strong leader. It is very interesting that the Afro-American society is generally matriarchal. I had never really considered this idea until a friend mentioned it to me. I found these stats with a little research from the US Census.
For all groups, the percentage of never married men in 1970 was 28.1%, compared to 22.1% of women. By 2020, these figures rose to 35.8% and 30.0%, respectively. However, in 1970, 35.6% of Black men and 27.7% of Black women were never married, but by 2020, these percentages had jumped to 51.4% for Black men and 47.5% for Black women.
I think this implies that Black women were not inclined to get married, especially to a black man. There are a number of ways to interpret this and I dare not try, but hidden in this data is some very important ideas. My point is, I believe the black society is generally matriarchal in nature. The women seem to be the stability of the families. I do realize I am way out on a limb here but it is something to think about.
I see the future, if its not too late, as being heavily influenced by women. It is my belief that women will be less likely to go to war, destroy the environment or be dictators. You can go to the following link of women dictators. https://listspecialize.com/female-dictators-in-history/ In our culture women who are seen as strong and aggressive are described in not so nice terms where as men who are this way are described a good, strong leaders…Interesting.
So, there you have it, my take on our future. Women will emerge and possibly be the answer we are looking for. This could be a more calm, less testosterone driven world. Maybe that is the 1000 years of peace that the bible makes reference to…One thing is for sure, many of us are going to find out if I am right. Buckle up!